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The Great Purge of 2026

I don't make New Years resolutions anymore. The stigma is overwhelming, too much pressure. Instead, I set goals. This year, my number one goal is to de-clutter. Everything. Not just my junk drawer, my office, or my basement. Everything. My email accounts. My social media. My mind. My life. I feel like I'm drowning in … Continue reading The Great Purge of 2026 →

40nobody Finding My Way, Live Our Best Life, Uncategorized Leave a comment January 7, 2026

I’m Losing My Pants!

In August, I shared a pretty personal story about my struggles with my weight. So many of you reached out and encouraged me that I thought I’d start this season of Thanksgiving with an update. I’m literally losing my pants. My “tight” jeans have started falling off my hips. My “favorite” jeans are so baggy … Continue reading I’m Losing My Pants! →

40nobody Uncategorized Leave a comment November 2, 2025

I Am a C…..

I am a C-H. I am a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N. I have C-H-R-I-S-T in my H-E-A-R-T. And I will L-I-V-E E-T-E-R-N-A-L-L-Y. This song randomly pops into my head. Sometimes I’m in the shower, sometimes I’m driving home from work, and sometimes I’m trying my damnedest to fall asleep. There’s no rhyme or reason. Nothing triggers it. It’s … Continue reading I Am a C….. →

40nobody Finding My Way, Uncategorized Leave a comment September 28, 2025

Enough is Enough

I’ll be honest. Before yesterday, I had absolutely no idea who Charlie Kirk was. I’d never heard his name, much less anything he’d ever said. Twenty four hours later, I’m mourning not just the man I never knew, but the lost opportunities of a life cut short by senseless violence. Rarely will I post anything … Continue reading Enough is Enough →

40nobody Just My Opinion, Uncategorized Leave a comment September 11, 2025

SuperDaughter!!

It’s not my fault. I mean, it is my fault that she’s so awesome…after all, I raised her! What I mean is it’s not my fault that this is yet another “all about her” post. It’s her fault. She harasses me constantly until I cave. She’s always liked the attention. Where do I even begin?? … Continue reading SuperDaughter!! →

40nobody Daughter, Just My Opinion, Uncategorized Leave a comment August 24, 2025

This is the Story of a Girl…Who is Not OK

Before you settle in to read this, I just need you to know that it’s gonna be a long one. A testimonial rant that may jump around and make no sense at times, but it’s necessary for me to get it all out. Still interested? Alright, buckle up cuz here we go! In February 2024, … Continue reading This is the Story of a Girl…Who is Not OK →

40nobody Finding My Way, Live Our Best Life, Uncategorized Leave a comment August 10, 2025

I Miss Baseball

America’s pastime. No, baseball hasn’t gone anywhere. It’s still there, in big cities and small towns. It’s me that’s strayed. As my NA friends often say, we have to live life on life’s terms. Mine has been a busy clusterf*ck over the past year, and it’s got me feeling some kind of way. I’m reminiscing … Continue reading I Miss Baseball →

40nobody Uncategorized Leave a comment March 31, 2025

One Damn Year

How is this even real? One year ago, I sat with my Mom watching Family Feud, or “the Steve Harvey” as she called it. She ate pork chops and pierogis and told me how she wanted to go to the club on Saturday. She was disappointed when I told her that we did not have … Continue reading One Damn Year →

40nobody Uncategorized Leave a comment February 27, 2025

We Did It!

If you’re reading this, you did it. You survived 2024. You woke up this morning, and that in itself is a blessing. You’re here to see the beginning of a new year, a new chapter in your life. I don’t care if all you did last year was survive. That is an accomplishment and something … Continue reading We Did It! →

40nobody Uncategorized Leave a comment January 1, 2025

It Came Just the Same

Christmas looks a little different this year. It’s the first without my mom. I’m going through the motions, but if we’re being honest, I haven’t really found that Christmas spirit this year. So much of the magic of Christmastime for me is wrapped up in my mom. I don’t know how she ever found the … Continue reading It Came Just the Same →

40nobody Uncategorized Leave a comment December 25, 2024

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